Supporting a child through therapy can be both challenging and emotional. Parents and carers may often feel anxious about the reasons for their child’s therapy and what happens during those confidential sessions. Understanding the importance of confidentiality in child therapy is key for fostering a trusting relationship between your child and their therapist.
In this article, we explore how confidentiality works in child therapy, why it is crucial to the therapeutic process, and the specific situations in which confidentiality might need to be broken.
Confidentiality means that personal information shared in therapy is kept private. Accredited therapists—whether working with children, young people, or adults—follow ethical frameworks that protect the privacy of clients, which is particularly important in child therapy. This includes maintaining confidentiality regarding any session notes and what is discussed during the therapy.
However, confidentiality is not always absolute. A therapist may break confidentiality if they believe a client, or someone linked to the client, is at risk of harm. This is always done cautiously and, where possible, after consulting with a supervisor or professional body. These principles are not only part of therapeutic ethics but are also legally supported by the Human Rights Act 1998 and GDPR (General Data Protection Regulation) 2016.
Children, if deemed competent, have the right to privacy. Tools such as Gillick competency and Fraser guidelines help professionals determine whether a child can make informed decisions about their welfare.
Confidentiality is fundamental to child and adolescent therapy. It helps create a safe space where children can feel secure and build trust with their therapist. This is key to allowing them to open up about their thoughts and feelings—crucial aspects of overcoming challenges related to childhood mental health.
Children often express their feelings through play, art, and other creative activities, rather than just talking. The assurance that these interactions are kept private helps to build trust. Without confidentiality, children may be less willing to share, reducing the effectiveness of their therapy. Respecting confidentiality in child psychotherapy ensures that children can engage fully in their sessions.
Although confidentiality is a cornerstone of therapy, there are specific situations in which a therapist may need to share information. These include:
Where possible, therapists will involve the young person, explaining why confidentiality must be broken and ensuring they feel understood. However, this isn’t always possible, depending on the urgency of the situation.
Parents and carers are crucial in supporting a child’s therapeutic journey. Here are some tips to help:
Confidentiality in therapy plays an essential role in the healing process. For children, it is vital in helping them to feel secure and free to explore their thoughts and emotions. By respecting these boundaries, parents can support the child’s therapeutic journey effectively, whether they are seeing a child psychologist or child therapist.
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